God granted us common sense... so use it

As Christians, we pray about our family, our jobs, our purchases and everything else... and then we wait. We wait for an answer or confirmation before we make our move. I believe this is the right thing to do, but we must not forget that God gave us not only a spirit, but a brain. He wants us to put it to good use. So of course we must pray and see his will for our daily lives, however, you can't walk through life weighting for a miraculous sign at every corner.

Be confident in the knowledge and wisdom that HE has provided and trust HE will not fail you. He gave you a miracle of a body along with that soul. By my own experience God's plan is not always logical. After all talking to a burning bush is not the most logical thing to do. But His plan is always available and if you seek with a pure heart, you will find it. (in His time) Seek your wisdom from experiences, pray, pray some more and use your brain.

Thank you for allowing me to preach to myself....

Our Super Star Emily...

Emily auditioned for her first stage play. Several of her friends are active in plays since the Danville Community Theater is so family friendly and tons of fun. This performance will be Schoolhouse Rock LIVE!

It caught my attention because Emily has a VCR tape (yes I do still have a few tapes around the house) of the top 100 Schoolhouse Rock songs. She loves it and watches it frequently. So I knew she could relate to the music. I really didn't think she would get a part but thought it would be a positive experience for her to just audition. To our surprise, she will be singing on stage this summer!

Even though Tony and I already knew she had landed a spot, we decided to take her by the to let her find her name on the list for herself. So, we picked her up after school and told her we had heard they posted the list and we could go by to see. She immediately got a nervous look on her face. I told her that no matter what, it was a fun experience even if she didn't make it this time. (he he) We pulled up to the theater and we barely had stopped the van before Emily jumped out and ran to the window. It took her all of 5 seconds to find her name, and literally began jumping for joy! It was really fun to see.

I hope she enjoys this experience. It is a lot of practice and time, so we'll see how well she deals with it. I think she will have a blast and make a few new friends along the way.

Folks, I'm sold. I have officially put the coupons to the test. So, the great news other than saving $ is that I can avoid Wal-mart and still save if I choose to. YAY! I purchased $170 worth of groceries at Kroger a few days ago and through the use of coupons and my Kroger Card and downloading coupons on to my card (great idea btw) I reduced my purchase to $130. WOW! That's $40 free!

Now, the true test was when I went to Wal-mart and tried to use my coupons and only saved $3.50. So, I thought well, maybe Wal-marts beginning prices where lower. But I compared several items on both receipts and guess what... Kroger wins overall.

There is a caveat... this excludes the prices of health and beauty products... Wal-mart or you local drug store may still be a better bet.

I hope you give it a try. I'd love to hear your results and success stories, or perhaps you have a helpful tip!

Spiritual update

My January post is interesting to me as I have been somewhat refined since then. I just happened to run into a friend who invited me to a bible study. And so I went and am loving it. It is, Annointed, Transformed, Redeemed by Beth Moore, Pricilla Shirer, and Kay Arthur. Which that line up you know it's going to be powerful.

I have realized that I was with holding my heart from my God. I was saying and doing what I was suppose to as a Christian but withholding the most important connection from Him b/c I was feel a little "unblessed" and frustrated with God for where we are in our life. I have been selfishly dissatisfied but also felt I was wrong for feel that way and so I didn't confess it to the Lord. Guess I should pay more attention to my header verse on this blog...

Anyway I am getting over my devastation with God and working toward WHOLE-HEARTED obedience. I have had my "discussion" with God now and express my frustration. I can also see some things now that he has protected me from and trust that he is still doing so.

I will continue to love, trust and obey as I get through these trials. AND I will not POUT: (Pour old unloved thang" as Beth put it.

Coupons?? Or waste of time.

For a while I have casually clipped coupons, and using them (that is the key for some- using them). Sometimes I am proud of the deals I get and other times like this passed Sunday, none of my coupons seem to match up to be a very good deals. So my 30 minutes of organization prior my store visit seemed like a waste.

However did any of you see the Dr. Phil show yesterday about saving money?! It was really great. I am determined now to become an expert frugal mom and cut my gro bill in half. If you did not see it, go to Drphil.com and watch the segments. You can also go the blog frugalcouponmom.com and get your info from the source. I am very impressed and encouraged to try the coupon thing again.

I'm just bummed I already did my shopping this week. I want a redo.

See If I can get this thing going...

So, here I am in Kentucky! I like many Americans am currently not in the workforce. Although, this no work thing does not exactly fit our budget, I'm certainly enjoying being home with the kids.

The kids are loving it too! I am on the hunt for something to do. If I can do "it" from home, that would be even better. I am praying and listening, but feel like there is a lot of interference from other stuff making it difficult for me to hear! So, I'm open to suggestions.. Maybe you can hear better than I. : ) Wish it worked that way.

In the mean time I am busy as ever with the house and kids, that I 'm not sure how I ever fit work in. But, it took some work to get to this point. At first I was a little shell shocked. I had to just sit, look around and think, what am I suppose to do? What do my stay at home mom friends do all day. Then when my child became hungry on a regular basis and was dependent upon ME to feed him (Emily at school) and my husband was low on underwear, I remembered, Oh yeah, I had a household to run. And, I began to see all the things around the house that had to be put off or neglected all together, because there was just no time to do them before.

So, I'm busy. But busy in a good way. Now, I just have to figure out this budget/work thing.

I would love to post new pics of the kids, but my crazy computer will not allow me to download the software. I'm missing a driver or something. Maybe I have time to figure that one out now. Well, if I do! You'll know, because I'll flood this blog with pics.

Tucker is hilarious at age 2. We love to watch, listen and laugh with him! He has a strong spirit and loves to play with cars, truck and trains. He prefers the ones that don't make noise or go by themselves. He likes to push them around and make up his own noises. He has a big imagination. When playing with him, he usually makes me turn off the toy if it tries to take off on it own.

Emily is enjoying her school and making new friends. She describes herself as an "action girl" not a princess girl. She claims to not like the color pink, except bright or hot pink. That is funny to me because I have always described her as a hot pink girl and not a baby pink girl. She is currently in Gymnastics and loves it.

Tony and I are doing great as well. Centre College is a great school and has amazing opportunities for the students. Recruiting kids to play football here is not too difficult as the product really sells itself. Centre really has an excellent reputation especially in KY.

Tony had a winning first season as the Offensive Coordinator. There have been a lot of changes for the team and staff to handle as they learn a new offense. But all is going well, and we have high expectations for the following seasons ahead!

Its time for Tuck and I to go pick up Emily from school. Talk to you again soon!

Hey Everyone! No I didn't forget about my poor little blog

Its been a while I know... But I've been busy creating and building my new facebook! Facebook is the largest online social network in America at the moment and I had to be a part of it!! The great perk about Facebook is it really allows you as much security as you like as well as a simple interface that doesn't force me to spend hours upon hours just decorating and downloading wallpapers. My Space, was just too much work. I know I know, you don't have to decorate your page, but if you don't know one whats to look at it.. SO, I'm a facebook fan! Look for me and I'll be your friend if you'll be mine!

Anyway, we are doing great here in Kentucky. Emily started 1st grade and loved her first week of school. Tucker is going to daycare, kicking, clawing and screaming... Tony even has scars on his face to prove it. However with in 1 minute of us being out of sight, he is perfectly fine and plays non-stop. My only major complaint at this point is that one of his teachers keep calling him "Trucker" Oh well, guess I should have saw that coming.

I have started my job with Cre8tive Group as the Account Executive. I've been back at work for 2 weeks and, so far so good. I am still in the sinking into my role phase, but I am getting busier and busier day by day.

We have enjoyed our Church hopping experience so far but think we may have found our place. I am torn and think I can be involved with both churches to some extent. We will see. Tony and I talked just this morning about our need to pray about the situation and where we could be most useful to him.

Tony "kicked-off" the practice season last night... or this morning at 12:01am. Yes thats right! Midnight Madness practice. Needless to say Coach White is stuggling today as he did not get home until about 4am. I honestly don't know how he is standing straight. He is back up at the office preparing to practice again today (sunday) at 5 ish.

I know its crazy but I sort of like this time of year as we gear up for the season. The excitement builds and I begin to get eager to get to the stadium for the first game. I think as a coach's wife, you either love it or you hate it and there is not much room for gray area.

Well, the kids are yelling.. "park park park" so here we go, across the street to our little neighborhood park. Ya'll have a great day! Love you!

--Meredith